Wednesday, September 19, 2007

For all my ladies....

Men are manipulators, since birth I think. I find it fascinating how many of them seem to find their way into my life, they pop in claim that ‘your so pretty’ and then another girl walks by and you were last weeks sandwich. Men claim to want witty intelligent women, then find them, seem interested, and then follow the nearest girl that they can get some ass from.
Being used becomes a form of oppression for women, oppression which we seem to handle with poise. How many women have been cheated on? Or been lead on thinking they were going to be asked out, just to hear, “well we’re friends right? Because I met this girl tonight and I’m going to pursue her for awhile, but hopefully you will still stick around.”
No ladies. We need to stand up and demand back our ovaries. We are much better then this shit that men dish out. They play with our emotions, emotions that are easily swayed when we are pmsing and craving some affection. Ultimately girls, I don’t think men ever grow up, they take a little bit of responsibility when they finally decide that they want to leave a ‘small piece of themselves’ on this earth.
Let’s stand together, support each other, and tell men that we are worth far more then being the back up if they get shot down by that girl parading herself. Funny part is, the reason that she is parading is because she was in our position once. So really ladies, let’s all work together. No more showing off for men, no more teasing and flirting or giving yourself up so that a man will decide to spend some time with you, no more lamenting that guy that hasn’t called in a few days. Honey, we all deserve to be pursued, let’s give them the emotional roller coaster for once.
When a man treats me like the divine creation I am, and isn’t just trying to be nice to me so he can get in my pants, and holds a real conversation with me, cares about me as a person, then maybe Ill give him a call back a week later. But for now, I’m off limits...


... and all men are second best.

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